A Tips-Filled Bumper Article to Help You Sleep Better Featuring Four Experts

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FEATURED EXPERT
CELESTE LAU
Chief Dietitian
Sunway Medical Centre
ADD MAGNESIUM-RICH FOODS IN YOUR DIET

“Magnesium plays a crucial role in various bodily functions, such as muscle and nerve operation, protein synthesis, glycolysis, and blood pressure regulation,” says Celeste Lau.

She explains further that this mineral aids in the conversion of protein into chemicals that induce sleepiness, promote muscle relaxation, and maintain gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA), a neurotransmitter responsible for promoting restfulness.

You should consume between 100 and 350 mg of magnesium daily for optimal sleep support.

Celeste recommends adding sources of magnesium such as walnuts, almonds, flaxseeds, salmon, and mackerel into your meals. It is recommended to consume between 100-350mg of magnesium daily for optimal sleep support.

“Additionally, refrain from consuming a heavy meal in the evening. It is recommended to have dinner 2 to 3 hours prior to your bedtime,” she adds.

FEATURED EXPERT
MICHELLE CHONG HUI YEE
Clinical Psychologist
Sunway Medical Centre
PRACTICE RESTFULNESS

Michelle Chong explains that restfulness is a deliberate act of nurturing yourself—physically, mentally, and emotionally.

It is characterized by a feeling of peacefulness and contentment, often accompanied by a sense of relief from stress, worries, tension, or fatigue.

Mentally, restfulness means quieting the mind, letting go of worries, and embracing a sense of mental stillness.

  • Learn to embrace mindfulness and relaxation techniques.
  • Grounding yourself in the present moment. This heightened awareness allows you to detach from worries about the past and anxieties regarding the future as well as to foster a sense of presence that can alleviate stress and enhance your awareness of immediate experiences.
  • Practice deep breathing exercises and progressive muscle relaxation (PMR) methods to heighten your body awareness and release muscle tension, focusing on achieving a state of ‘physical rest’.
  • Prioritize relaxation techniques that calm the mind before bedtime. “Activities such as mindfulness meditation and journaling can effectively declutter the mind and reduce stress hormones, creating a more seamless transition into sleep,” Michelle says.
FEATURED EXPERT
DR NURUL YAQEEN
Consultant Respiratory, Sleep & Internal Medicine Physician
Sunway Medical Centre Velocity
START SLEEPTIME RITUALS 
  • Do not use your bed as an office to answer calls, respond to emails and avoid watching television in bed,” advises Dr Nurul Yaqeen.
  • Instead, reserve your bed for sleep. Remove electronic devices (televisions, computers, smartphones, etc), from the bedroom.
  • Try to start a sleep ritual as rituals help signal the body and mind that it is time to sleep. Some suggestions from Dr Nurul Yaqeen are drinking a glass of warm milk, taking a bath, or listening to calming music to unwind before bed.
  • “There is also the 10-3-2-1 method to help you rest better at night,” she says, “which is no caffeine 10 hours before bed, no food or alcohol 3 hours before bed, no work 2 hours before bed, and no screen time 1 hour before bed.” 
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Effendy Nadzri
Interior Designer
ENDO
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GET THE AMBIENCE RIGHT
  • Keep your room cool at night,” says Effendy Nadzri. “The ideal temperature in the bedroom should be between 20º and 23º Celsius.”
  • If you have an air conditioner at home, he recommends switching it on at night to signal to your body that it is time for sleep.
  • Set the perfect ambience with dimmable or mood lighting to enhance your bedroom space and create the desired mood for a restful evening before you retire to sleep.
  • “You may want to have aromatherapy or essential oils that can help you relax at night,” Effendy adds.

 

An Addiction Therapist Gets Candid & Honest About His Past & His Job

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FEATURED EXPERT
SAESHANATHAN THANASEGARAN
Addiction Therapist
Eve Psychosocial Rehabilitation Centre
RE:Life Mental Health Clinic

Saeshanathan Thanasegaran, or Saesha as he prefers to be addressed, is a man that has overcome his addiction demons. Since then, he commits himself to helping other addicts that wish to overcome their addiction.

We managed to sit down and chat with him recently and are glad to be able to share his story and thoughts with you.

SAESHA, YOU HAVE OVERCOME YOUR ADDICTION. WHAT MOTIVATED YOU TO SEEK REHAB IN THE FIRST PLACE?
Saesha:

Well, I couldn’t have done rehab on my own. When someone is caught in the web of addiction, they are unable to think for themselves and they prefer to be in the addiction cycle.

My family, especially my brother and my uncle, were my ‘two towers’ that told me rehab was going to change my life forever.

Had I not done rehab, I would have found myself without any shelter, and I would have been left alone to fend for myself.

WHAT WERE YOUR GREATEST CHALLENGES WHEN IT COMES TO OVERCOMING YOUR ADDICTION?
Saesha:

My greatest challenge was being honest and truthful with the people who tried to help me with my issues, be it my behavior or my addiction. I was always in denial.

My uncle and my brother were and still are my greatest support system.

Besides that, spiritual healing was also another path which I had followed, and it has added value to my recovery.

YOU’RE NOW AN ADDICTION THERAPIST. WHAT DOES AN ADDICTION COACH DO?
Saesha:

An addiction therapist is someone that does peer to peer support and conducts recovery sessions for those who have chosen the path of recovery or for those who are finding the recovery process difficult.

WHAT MOTIVATED YOU TO BECOME ONE?
Saesha:

I just felt my story was something that could be heard by others who were going through this.

When I met my mentor, Chris Sekar that currently works at Gleneagles Hospital, he told me what good this can do for me and how far I can go with this, from addiction coach to addiction therapist.

Doing that has now led me to continue to do my degree in psychology at a local university.

PLEASE TELL US MORE ABOUT HOW YOU BECAME AN ADDICTION THERAPIST.
Saesha:

I first registered for this course with a rehab center that was offering this training.

The training was conducted for about 8 weeks and for the final round, we had to conduct a case conferencing, in which we had to apply what we had learnt to understand a real-life situation.

Once I completed the course, I received a Level 2 certification and started my journey as addiction therapist.

WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR PROUDEST MILESTONES AS AN ADDICTION THERAPIST?
Saesha:

I would say that my proudest moment would be when I was invited by a local university to speak in front of students and their lecturers about my journey and struggles of my addiction—what I had gone through while in it.

It was conducted in front of about 80 people, the biggest crowd that I have faced till to date!

ONE THING MANY FORMER ADDICTS FEAR IS A RELAPSE. DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE ON STAYING CLEAN?
Saesha:

Relapse is one thing that we all fear.

One thing that I have learnt is that we always need to be aware of our past and how life was during our times in addiction.

With each step and move that we make in our life, we should always be reminded that we are only doing things forward and not going back.

As certain recovery groups would say: “One day at a time.” This saying goes along way for us in recovery.

LASTLY, DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR PEOPLE WITH ADDICTION, BUT ARE WORRIED THAT THEY MAY NOT BE ABLE TO FIND HELP?
Saesha:

My only advice would be: if you cannot get yourself to find help, don’t push away help that comes your way. Be it from family, friends or even strangers.

Allow yourselves to receive the help that comes your way, it’s done out of grace and love. After all, no family member would want their son or daughter to go through the agony of addiction.

Receive the help that comes your way because in the end, it’s totally worth it.

IMU Counsellors Open Up About Mental Health Issues Among University Students

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The 2015 Malaysian National Health and Morbidity Survey found the prevalence of mental health problems has increased from 10.6% in 1996 to 29.2% in 2015.

The prevalence is highest among those aged 16 to 19, with 18.3% having depression and 10% having suicidal thoughts.

Some of the factors associated with this increase include:

  • Unemployment
  • Financial difficulties
  • Family and relationship problems
  • Poor coping skills
  • Insufficient social support
WHAT IS KEEPING OUR YOUTH FROM SEEKING HELP?

Barriers that are keeping young adults from seeking help include:

  • Poor understanding of mental health problems
  • Fear of social stigma or embarrassment
  • Lack of social support
  • Difficulty in accessing professional services

Counsellors of the International Medical University (IMU) recently issued a statement that mental health issues can be even more prevalent among tertiary students that study abroad.

To circumvent this issue, International Medical University (IMU) and other tertiary education institutes often work closely with their partner schools to ensure full support and care for the wellbeing of their students, and to provide benchmarks on how their students are actually coping overseas.

Such support can come in the form of student-led initiatives such as peer-to-peer support—when students effectively reach out to one another—as well as counselling sessions with academic leads, senior tutors, and/or professional advisers.

WATCH OUT FOR THESE SIGNS

According to the IMU Self-Development Unit counsellors, we should watch out for these signs

  • Disturbed sleep patterns, such as difficulties falling asleep or waking up, waking up in the middle of the night, or excessive sleep.
  • Emotional outbursts, such as being very sensitive and easily irritated or angry.
  • Persistent fatigue.
  • Poor concentration, such as losing track of conversations.
  • Significant changes in eating habits and/or weight change that is not caused by a health issue.
  • Withdrawal from social activities—not making eye contact, being less active or significantly quieter or not participating when in social groups.

The IMU Self-Development Unit notes that some of these warning signs can be easily misunderstood or misconstrued in different social contexts. Hence, it is important to have patience in understanding a person’s behaviours when these could indicate possible mental health risk.

OFFER SUPPORT & HELP

The next step is to offer support to someone who is struggling, and the IMU Self-Development Unit counsellors says that listening to our intuition is very important.

Very often, the signs are there that tell us something is wrong, but we may turn a blind eye and ignore them. In some instances, we may even feel concerned about our own safety.

Here is their advice, based on the NEC model:

  1. Notice. Tell the person what you’ve observed that has worried you, such as “I noticed that you haven’t been eating/sleeping much lately.”
  2. Express concern. Let them know that you are worried about them and offer them space and privacy to listen to them and support them in any way such.
  3. Connect them to someone who can help. Suggest a person or resource where they can get the help they need or offer to accompany them when they are ready to seek professional help.
For a more comprehensive list of mental health resources across Malaysia, check out https://sites.google.com/view/psymalaysia/ (link opens in a new tab).