Survivors Speak, Our Hearts Listen: Real and Inspiring Stories & Advice from Cancer Survivors

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THE DOCTOR’S STORY

Dr Zahrina Azian Zohadie’s world changed irrevocably when she was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer.

Since the cancer is at stage 4, it means that the cancer cells had spread from the colon to other parts of the body.

Staying strong for her children

“My cancer treatment was indeed challenging, but I had no other choice. I had to go through it,” Dr Zahrina said during a recent cancer survivor event at Columbia Asia Hospital–Bukit Rimau. “My children needed their mother. Despite the harsh effects of chemotherapy on my body, I persevered. In my mind, all this hardship will be worth it for those I love and those who love me.”

Once you have cancer, you have no option but to fight it

This was Dr Zahrina’s belief.

“The cancer is already in our bodies, so we must move forward because there’s nothing else we can do,” she elaborated. “We must continue with treatment.”

She was blessed to have encouragement and motivation from a close friend and colleague, an oncology specialist.  “Her advice, no matter the situation, is to keep going with the treatment. Her words of encouragement have been very helpful to me,” she said.

Having survived, she now offers her strength to others living with cancer

As a cancer survivor, Dr Zahrina felt that it was her vocation to offer her support to other cancer patients, bolstering their spirits with encouragement and support similar to what she received during her own cancer journey.

“During treatment, I felt like I was facing this painful challenge alone. But over time, I realize there are many others like me,” she shared.

Dr Zahrina is presently a member of the KanWork Cancer Support Association (link opens in a new tab).

THE BREAST CANCER SURVIVOR’S STORY

Norhaisnah Naian is a breast cancer survivor and a volunteer at KanWork.

Recalling her breast cancer journey, she shared: “In those days, I diligently sought information on how to get assistance from organizations like MAIS, Baitulmal, Lions Club, and many more.”

“When I attended chemotherapy sessions, I met other cancer patients from all walks of life,” she continued. “Naturally, I share information with them like where to find resources related to cancer. This is how I help other patients.”

Seek the company of supportive people with positive energy

“I fully understand how painful the experience of a cancer patient can be,” Norhaisnah said. “My advice is to find friends with positive energy and positive vibes.”

She pointed out that the volunteers at KanWork sought to be these allies for people living with cancer.

“I’ve been with Kanwork for over a year. We meet many former patients and current cancer patients whom we continue to motivate,” she told us.

A MEDICAL OFFICER REMINISCENCES ABOUT HER EXPERIENCES
FEATURED EXPERT
DR HEMA DARSHINEE JOHNSON
Oncology Medical Officer
Columbia Asia Hospital–Bukit Rimau

Dr Hema Darshinee Johnson revealed that a doctor’s approach to cancer patients is not as straightforward as prescribing medications.

She explained: “As doctors, we give treatment plans, and we tell patients to take certain medicine. On top of that, we tell them the side effects. Sometimes we tell them up front. But for them, even trivial things like brushing teeth can eventually become difficult at some point. It is always easier to say, ‘Be positive!’, but we will never understand what it’s like to be in their shoes. Their life turns upside down. That’s why it amazes me to see how they find the strength to continue.”

Grit and determination 

She recalled a domestic helper that had to travel back and forth to the hospital for treatment. “This lady took an 8-hour bus ride starting at midnight to arrive early at KL Sentral, then took a Grab to the hospital and then back. She knows the costs beforehand, so she cleans more houses to be able to afford the trip.”

Dr Hema felt humbled by these courageous people. “At the end of the day, my role as a doctor is only to assist them. I am only providing some form of lifeline, but they are the ones who are holding on to it and swimming across. It is all them.”

A reason to keep fighting

“It is beyond me to understand the grit they have but it is always about the ‘why’,” she mulled. “Everyone will have a reason to continue fighting whether it is their spouse, parents, children, or just not wanting to take life for granted and to give it their best. When you have found your reason; this journey becomes that much more purposeful. Together, we can surely win this.”

OVERCOMING THE STIGMA

Rozita Shafei, who has stage 1 cervical cancer, shared that people living with cancer often become stigmatized by others.

She said, “At first, I felt down. Friends distanced themselves because they fear they may get cancer. I felt isolated but thankfully, I received much support from my children and husband.”

She emphasized that emotional support is crucial for someone undergoing cancer treatment.

“My advice to those undergoing cancer treatment is to stay positive, strengthen your spirit, and believe in yourself.”

Her advice was echoed by Nurul Balqis, who was diagnosed with breast cancer since September 2023.

“All my children understand is that Mama always goes to the hospital. If I don’t go for a few days, they ask, ‘Mama didn’t go to the hospital today?'” she shared, adding that their concern strengthened her determination to continue her treatment.

“Besides that, I try to look forward and stay positive,” she further said.

RECOGNIZING THE RESILIENCE AND COURAGE OF CANCER SURVIVORS

This sharing session was held in conjunction with Cancer Survivors Month in June.

Additionally, Columbia Asia Hospital—Bukit Rimau announced a 3-year partnership with the Breast Cancer Welfare Association (BCWA) through a memorandum of understanding.

This partnership aspired to empower volunteers from KanWork, who are cancer survivor themselves, to provide emotional and moral support to cancer patients.

The ceremony was attended by guest of honour YB Puan Jamaliah Jamaluddin, the Selangor State Health & Environment Exco.

“Today, as we celebrate Cancer Survivors Day, we honor those who have fought and survived cancer, acknowledging their resilience and strength,” she said in her speech.



 

Seeking the Light at the End of a Cancer Treatment Journey

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Khariza Abdul Khalid has a blessed life. At 47, she is the Executive Director of Gamuda Land and a mother of 3 precious children.

However, it was not always rosy for Khariza, for in 2012, the discovery of an unusual bulging on her left stomach led to a diagnosis of stage 3 non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma.

Non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma is a type of cancer that starts in the lymphatic system—a network comprising our lymphatic vessels, lymph nodes, lymphoid organs, lymphoid tissues, and lymph fluid. When one develops this cancer, their white blood cells grow in an abnormal manner, forming tumours throughout the body.
A SHOCK, THEN COMES DETERMINATION

“I was scared, worried, nervous,” recalls Khariza, “but I was informed that I would have to go through chemotherapy.”

Fortunately, her husband and parents were very supportive, acting as the rock for her to stay strong and supported throughout her cancer treatment journey.

Her parents even stepped in to care for her children during the period.

A LONG JOURNEY

“I had to go for 6 cycles of chemotherapy and a bone marrow transplant,” Khariza shares with us.

Each cycle took place in a month, and she would, depending on her health condition, have 2 weeks of rest or staying in the ward for 3 to 4 days.

During this period, she took a year leave from work.

“I’m grateful for the support from not only my family, but also my employer and colleagues,” she tells us.

Additionally, she is also grateful for the compassionate care, understanding, and support she received from the doctors, nurses, and other hospital staff during her treatment journey.


“Don’t worry too much,” Khariza advises others that are embarking on their cancer treatment journey. “It is not an easy road, but you will get through this!”


A HOPEFUL FUTURE

By the end of the 6th cycle, Khariza received the news that she had been hoping to hear: her cancer cells had been eliminated.

She would undergo immediate bone marrow transplant, to replace bone marrow damaged during chemotherapy and to regenerate her immune system.

These days, Khariza is feeling more like her old self.

“I am blessed,” she says. “I am feeling heathier and more energetic too, as I have added exercises and workouts into my daily routine.

Not taking life for granted anymore, she also devotes more time to bond with her family and friends.

Keep the Hope of Pregnancy Alive in Spite of Breast Cancer

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FEATURED EXPERT
DR CHRISTINA LAI NYE BING
Consultant Clinical Oncologist
Sunway Medical Centre
WHY IS BREAST CANCER SO PREVALENT AMONG YOUNGER WOMEN THESE DAYS?

Aside from unhealthy diet and exposure to cancer-causing chemicals or carcinogens in the environment, Dr Christina Lai Nye Bing shares that one possible factor is that women are choosing to marry and have children at a later age.

This somewhat paradoxical concept can be explained by the link between breast cancer and the female sex hormone oestrogen.

“Breast cancer is a hormone-related cancer, and high levels of oestrogen in the body increases the risk of breast cancer as it encourages cancer cells to grow by promoting cell division and reproduction,” Dr Christina explains. “Women in the previous generation who get married and have children earlier have a lower risk of breast cancer, as the oestrogen in their body decreases when they are pregnant and choose to breastfeed.”

FEATURED EXPERT
DR HOO MEI LIN
Consultant Gynaecologist and Fertility Specialist
Sunway Medical Centre
IS PREGNANCY IMPOSSIBLE AFTER CHEMOTHERAPY?

Given that chemotherapy plays a big part in the treatment regime of many women with breast cancer, this raises the concern of whether the dream of having a family in the future an impossible one for them.

The unfortunate truth is that chemotherapy affects a woman’s fertility, with a 40% to 80% chance of early menopause.

The ovaries stop producing eggs upon menopause, so with that, the dream dies… or does it?

While Dr Hoo Mei Lin admits that the damage to the ovaries due to chemotherapy is irreversible, there is still a glimmer of hope.

“Patients can plan ahead, as conservation methods such as embryo freezing, egg freezing, and ovarian tissue freezing are available to enable patients to fulfil their wish of having children,” she shares.

Egg and ovarian freezing are suitable options for women that do not have a partner prior to having to undergo chemotherapy.

KEEP THE DREAM ALIVE

Dr Hoo advises breast cancer patients to have an open mind about their future and even consider having children.

After all, breast cancer patients under the age of 45 have an 80% survival rate after treatment!

“With the rapid advances in medical technology today, there is hope for breast cancer patients and survivors to plan their future. Technologies like egg and embryo freezing gives them the opportunity to have children in the future,” she says.

When it comes to cancer diagnosis, the focus is often about treating it, making fertility an afterthought. However, with the advancement in medical technology, surviving a cancer diagnosis is becoming increasingly successful hence, it is important to speak to your doctor as there are ways to help preserve fertility.